有人说：“如果用恩德来回报别人对自己的怨仇，行不行呢？”孔子说：“这样的话，你将用什么来报答别人对你的恩德呢？不如以公正对待怨仇，以恩德报答恩德。”

机会总是留给有准备的人。

The secret of living is to own a convertible and a lake...If the sun is shining, you can rid around in your convertible and be happy...If it starts to rain, it won't spoil your day because you can just say, 'Oh, well, the rain will fill up my lake!'"”