有不虞之誉，有求全之毁。
有时会得到未曾料到的赞美声誉，有时会碰到求全苛责的毁谤攻击。
身份是脆弱的东西，容易丢失，难以重获。
Never look back unless you are planning to go that way.
Don't walk behind me; I may not lead. Don't walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend.