I will tell you what I will do and what I will not do. I will not serve that in which I no longer believe, whether it call itself my home, my fatherland, or my church: and I will try to express myself in some mode of life or art as freely as I can and as wholly as I can, using for my defence the only arms I allow myself to use—silence, exile, and cunning.

不成熟的爱说：'我爱你因为我需要你。'成熟的爱说：'我需要你因为我爱你。'

If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude.