You have to be willing to grow. Growth is different from something that happens to you. You produce it. You live it. The prerequisites for growth: the openness to experience events and the willingness to be changed by them.

嫉妒是灵魂的肿瘤。

The whole is other than the sum of the parts.

译文：贤惠的妻子就怕家里没有好丈夫，未成婚的姑娘就怕嫁给行为不端的渣男。赏析：婚姻是女人一生的大事，要谨慎对待。幸福的婚姻，女人眼里有光；而痛苦的婚姻，女人只会恐慌。而那些涉世未深的年轻女孩，大多不会理性筛选伴侣，这也导致这些女孩婚后过得非常糟糕，不是被丈夫家暴，就是被公婆冷漠对待。所以，这句话是在惊醒世人：婚姻不是儿戏，要慎之又慎。