一般来说,嫉妒、怨恨和自怜都是灾难性的思想模式。自怨自艾与偏执狂相当接近,而偏执狂是最难扭转的。
Generally speaking, envy, resentment, and self-pity are disastrous modes of thoughts.Self-pity gets fairly close to paranoia, and paranoia is one of the very hardest things to reverse.
Judge a man by his questions rather than by his answers.
那时我太老了,现在反而年轻了。