I truly believe that women should be financially independent from their men. And let's face it, money gives men the power to run the show. It gives men the power to define value. They define what's sexy. And men define what's feminine. It's ridiculous.
孔子说:“富和贵,人人向往,不以正当的方法得到的,不要享受;贫和贱,人人厌恶,不以正当方法摆脱的,不要逃避。君子扔掉了仁爱之心,怎么算君子?君子时刻不会违反仁道,紧急时如此,颠沛时如此。”