You need patience, discipline, and agility to take losses and adversity without going crazy.
对圣贤的道理教导别人很容易，自己实践却是不容易的事。对圣贤的道理开始奋斗很容易，但坚持到底却很难。圣贤的道理与实践相结合，行仁政必本与德性。后代则相反，学问与实践不能统一，不修持自己的德性，而只管治理别人。
It is in the thirties that we want friends. In the forties we know they won't save us any more than love did.
The only thing that’s keeping you from getting what you want is the story you keep telling yourself.
唯一阻止你得到你想要的东西的是你一直告诉自己的故事。