寻找意义是一种徒劳的努力。

愛とは、相手を理解し、受け入れること。それができなければ、本当の愛とは言えない。

出自汉·桓宽《盐铁论·地广》。释义：不因为是自己的亲近就给以重赏；也不因为与自己疏远就忘掉给人恩惠。

I don’t think you should spend much time being unhappy about the bad breaks. You get a lot of them, but you also get a lot of good ones. The thing to do is just to maximize your odds of using the good ones and minimizing the effects of the bad ones.