I would just place myself in the shoes of the person before me

让自己振作起来的最好方式是尝试让别人振作起来。

The things we admire in men, kindness and generosity, openness, honesty, understanding and feeling, are the concomitants of failure in our system. And those traits we detest, sharpness, greed, acquisitiveness, meanness, egotism and self-interest, are the traits of success.