The only phrase I've ever disliked is, 'Why, we've always done it that way.' I always tell young people, 'Go ahead and do it. You can always apologize later.'

Truth is so hard to tell， it sometimes needs fiction to make it plausible.

文学是人类经验的记录。

只有女子和小人最难相处，亲近了，他们说你不庄重；疏远了，他们又会怨恨你。