过去总是与我们同在,但它不必定义我们。
不必匆忙。不必光芒四射。不必成为别人,只需做自己。
The story is not in the plot; the plot is what happens, the story is what it means.
No one is altogether to be blamed for the defects of his nature; but he is blameworthy if he takes no pains to correct them.