"The world is full of obvious things which nobody by any chance ever observes."
生活,我们在世上是为了对它尽力增益,而不是从中竭力索取。
人类行为的首要原则是,一个人会做他认为能满足自己欲望的事情。
Make decisions when you are ready, not under pressure. Others will always push you to make a decision for their own purposes, internal politics, or some other external need. But you can almost always say, “I need a little more time to think about this. I’ll get back to you.” This tactic is very effective at defusing even the most difficult and uncomfortable situations.