The only thing more painful than being an active forgetter is to be an inert rememberer.
The more one forgets himself—by giving himself to a cause to serve or another person to love—the more human he is.
吃饭不可不嚼便咽,走路不可不看便走,话不可不考虑便信口乱说,事不可不计划就贸然去做,衣服不能随便就脱,钱财不能随便据为已有,怒气不可不忍而任意发作,朋友不可不加选择地乱交。