The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.

“生活中最大的荣耀不在于从不跌倒，而在于每次跌倒后都能站起来。”

我是温和的反面，完美无瑕，有着骗子的精神和大学生的傲慢。

聪明的人戒太明察，刚强的人戒太暴躁，温和的人戒优柔寡断。