In auctions, the winner's curse is not that you win, but that you pay too much for what you win.
世人常因冀望遥远难及的幸福,忽略了眼前的小乐趣。
君子有九种事情需要考虑到:看,要考虑是否清楚;听,要考虑是否明确;脸色,要考虑是否温和;容貌,要考虑是否恭敬;言语,要考虑是否忠实;做事,要考虑是否认真;疑惑,要考虑是否求教;愤怒,要考虑是否有后患;利益当前,要考虑是否该伸手。