「When someone is nasty， rude， hateful， or mean with you， pretend they have a disease. That makes it easier to have empathy toward them which can soften the conflict.」- 凯文·凯利经典语录

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When someone is nasty， rude， hateful， or mean with you， pretend they have a disease. That makes it easier to have empathy toward them which can soften the conflict.

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💡 解读： 当有人对你讨厌、粗鲁、憎恨或刻薄时，假设他们是病人。这使你更容易对他们产生共情，从而缓和冲突。
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要想把子女教育好，把准备花的钱削减一半，同时陪伴孩子的时间增加一倍。
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存钱和投资都是好习惯。几十年来不加思索地定期投资少量资金，是通往财富的一条道路。
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如何道歉：快速、具体、真诚。
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我最终发现，想要得到和生命真正类似的行为，不是设法创造出真正复杂的生物，而是给简单的生物提供一个极其丰饶的变异环境。
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为了丰厚的回报，请对你完全不感兴趣的事物保持好奇。
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人生的课程将以它们需要的顺序出现在你面前。任何你需要掌握的课程其实都在你身上。当你真正掌握了一节课之后，下一节课就会出现。如果你还活着，这就意味着你还有课程需要学习。
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一个智者曾经说过，“在你开口之前，先让你的语言经过三道门的检验。第一道门是问你自己，‘这是真话吗？’第二道门是‘这是必要的吗？’第三道门是‘这是善的吗？’”
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成为你自己想要看到的那种改变。
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Be a pro. Back up your back up. Have at least one physical backup and one backup in the cloud. Have more than one of each. How much would you pay to retrieve all your data， photos， notes， if you lost them？ Backups are cheap compared to regrets.
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及时支付你的欠款给卖主、员工、承包商。下一次，他们会第一时间跑来跟你合作。
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When crisis and disaster strike， don’t waste them. No problems， no progress.
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What you get by achieving your goals is not as important as what you become by achieving your goals. At your funeral people will not recall what you did； they will only remember how you made them feel.
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Recipe for success: under-promise and over-deliver.
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