「Rule of 3 in conversation. To get to the real reason， ask a person to go deeper than what they just said. Then again， and once more. The third time’s answer is close to the truth.」- 凯文·凯利经典语录

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Rule of 3 in conversation. To get to the real reason， ask a person to go deeper than what they just said. Then again， and once more. The third time’s answer is close to the truth.

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💡 解读： 沟通“三”原则，要找到真相，让别人比他们之前说的更深一些，一次、两次、三次的重复这个过程，第三次你就接近真相了。
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存钱和投资都是好习惯。几十年来不加思索地定期投资少量资金，是通往财富的一条道路。
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如何道歉：快速、具体、真诚。
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我最终发现，想要得到和生命真正类似的行为，不是设法创造出真正复杂的生物，而是给简单的生物提供一个极其丰饶的变异环境。
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一个智者曾经说过，“在你开口之前，先让你的语言经过三道门的检验。第一道门是问你自己，‘这是真话吗？’第二道门是‘这是必要的吗？’第三道门是‘这是善的吗？’”
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成为你自己想要看到的那种改变。
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Be a pro. Back up your back up. Have at least one physical backup and one backup in the cloud. Have more than one of each. How much would you pay to retrieve all your data， photos， notes， if you lost them？ Backups are cheap compared to regrets.
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及时支付你的欠款给卖主、员工、承包商。下一次，他们会第一时间跑来跟你合作。
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