The basis of shame is not some personal mistake of ours, but the ignominy, the humiliation we feel that we must be what others want us to be.

羞耻的基础不是我们的个人错误，而是我们必须成为别人希望我们成为的那种人的耻辱和屈辱。

The only thing that makes life possible is permanent, intolerable uncertainty; not knowing what comes next.

使生活成为可能的唯一事情是永久的、无法忍受的不确定性；不知道接下来会发生什么。

There is no perfection only life.

没有完美，只有生活。

The only relationship that can make both partners happy is one in which sentimentality has no place and neither partner makes any claim on the life and freedom of the other.

唯一能让双方都幸福的关系是没有感伤主义的位置，双方都不对对方的生活和自由提出任何要求的关系。

The unbearable lightness of being.

生命中不能承受之轻。

The truth is not always beautiful, nor beautiful words the truth.

真理并不总是美丽的，美丽的话语也不总是真理。